Improved table flash on reload (#16419)

This PR fixes https://github.com/twentyhq/core-team-issues/issues/1732

There is still some room for improvement but the main goal is reached :
removing the flash effect each time the table virtualization has to
recompute due to an update after initial loading.

# QA

## Create 


https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/1b4fc307-42ce-4ba6-b557-68ac7fcad40f

## Update with sort


https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/e0700f44-8926-4395-8ab8-b32773f21de8

## Update with filter


https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/d325f85a-1a7b-4366-aac3-250331be7575

## Soft delete


https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/2c980183-c637-4aa7-a0ca-244e61396b20

## Restore and destroy


https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/01af9ec7-b442-4686-a1d7-ea1fc543fe62

## Drag & drop


https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/bba76bdb-d4ec-433d-b44e-37fdb9952b06

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Co-authored-by: Charles Bochet <charles@twenty.com>

packages/twenty-shared/src/utils/array/mapById.ts

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+export const mapById = <T extends { id: string }>(itemToMap: T) => {
+  return itemToMap.id;
+};

packages/twenty-shared/src/utils/array/mapByProperty.ts

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+export const mapByProperty =
+  <T extends { id: string }>(propertyName: keyof T) =>
+  (itemToMap: T) => {
+    return itemToMap[propertyName];
+  };